I’m going to lay this out here – if your teeth are bad – FIX THEM (I don’t care how much it costs – get a loan or an extra job – it’s that important). If you can’t match clothes and you’re not up on the latest styles – GET THERE. If you can’t remember what she said because you’re too busy nervously talking/bragging/chattering about nothing then slow down and LISTEN to her. Before we go on I know a lot of you have been BRAINWASHED to think you just have to “be yourself”

Before we go on I know a lot of you have been BRAINWASHED to think you just have to “be yourself” and if she doesn’t like you for you then she wasn’t worth it. I hear guys blast women for being “shallow” and their only crime is that they happen to be human and like what they like at a gut level – just like guys! She’ll never get to know you – the real you – if all she thinks is “ewwww” when she runs across you due to your yellow teeth that go along with your brown belt and black shoes.

It is important that you’re always the best version of yourself – and that includes a good appearance (teeth, clothes and personal hygiene up to par) because dating is like sales. At some point I’ll write a full article about my dating/sales theory but for now just know that sales is all about a bunch of prospects and a whole lot more frustration. When I was in sales they told me you need 100 prospects to get 10 appointments and out of that you might get one or two pieces of business.

So, the only way you can improve your “pitch” to women is be the best you can be – that means fix your teeth, fix your clothes, get as fit as you can and learn to listen (more on that below) because let’s say out of a 100 women maybe 10 liked the current you – but if you do all the right things maybe you increase that to 30. Doc Love is all about odds and the odds are that you’ll have a better chance of meeting Ms. Right if you’re attracting 30 out of 100 instead of 10 out of 100.